Here are some of the articles I read this week:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
- Relax, Ladies. Don’t be so uptight. You know you want it.<\/a> via Medium. This piece deals with norms, how they change, and the horrible bullshit many of us were brought up to see as normal and fine. “Look, I get it. I was 20 years old in 1990. After my boyfriend punched me in the eye, he cried too. I held him until he felt better. I told friends I\u2019d stupidly walked into the corner of an open cabinet. Because, like the Washington Post <\/em>in 1990, I understood it was my job to help men feel better about themselves. “<\/li>
- New York Times Columnists vs. the Haters<\/a> via Slate. I don’t know whether to laugh or cry at this but the author chronicles all the recent New York Times opinion columns that are basically a response to someone being mean to the author on twitter, which … seems deeply unnecessary but that’s 2019 for you.<\/li>
- Against Cheerfulness via Aeon<\/a>. The author asserts that American cheerfulness is bordering on psychosis and I must agree. “… but forcing yourself to smile when you don\u2019t feel like it amounts to lying to the people around you. \u2018Fake it till you make it\u2019 has brutal consequences when applied to the emotions. When conceived as the attempt to trick others into thinking that you feel cheery, cheerfulness is far from a virtue. It\u2019s a vice. It falls on the deficiency end of the spectrum of trust. Too much trust is called na\u00efvet\u00e9, and is a vice of excess. But cheerfulness is just as bad. It confesses: I don\u2019t trust you with my darkest feelings; I don\u2019t think you are responsible enough to handle my inner life. Forced cheerfulness is a denial of life.”<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n
Rampant Consumerism<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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Partial receipt from my August Patreon<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n One thing I like spending money on is the artists and creators I support on Patreon<\/a>. I follow a number of authors, journalists, and podcasts. This is one way I can contribute directly to things I like and value. Plus I think it helps keep our media landscape from getting too homogenized (I hope).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I think I have talked about our pending shower remodel in a previous post. This week we finally picked a contractor and we went out to their showroom to choose tile and sort out the details, plus make a deposit on the work. I am looking forward to showering in the master bathroom again, although they’re not scheduled to begin work for almost a month. Getting a contractor for a remodel like this feels like one of the most adult homeownership tasks we’ve done yet. The upside is we’ll have a nice shower and hopefully we’ll never need to do this again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Making Things and Doing Stuff<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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library bike ride<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n I know I say this all the time, but I always feel like I do so little (-anxiety intensifies-) but the business of being alive takes up a lot of time. I spent a lot of time knitting and watching Buffy the Vampire Slayer this week, which is, frankly, a very good use of my time. I also did a bit of around-town bike riding, including a ride to the library today, which is my favorite Friday custom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Language Learning<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
August has ended which means I start a new page in my notebook. I didn’t do a whole lot but I did start focusing more on watching things and getting input in subjects that interest me. I’m watching a knitting podcast in Spanish and a a cooking show in Icelandic. I’m hoping that getting into language in things that interest me will help build some more groundwork for understanding other things, particularly in Icelandic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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August Icelandic notebook<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n Kitchen Witchery<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
It was a little warm this week but I’m out here pretending it’s fall (yes, I know it’s still summer). I had leftover chicken and homemade broth from earlier in the week so I decided the right thing to do was make a chicken pot pie. It’s not warm weather food, but it was a goodchoice anyway. The recipe I like comes from The Harvest Baker. I also made a loaf of bread today (recipe from the BBC<\/a>, although it’s a plaited loaf and I’m too lazy to do all that) that’s destined to become garlic bread to accompany spaghetti tonight. Last weekend, I picked the pepporchinis from our garden and bottled them up to be pickled. I’ve never pickled anything before\u2014largely because I don’t like pickles\u2014but Kirk loves them so I thought I’d give it a try. Plus it’s another handy skill for the coming collapse of civilization. (lol … but really). No word yet on how they came out. The pickling takes a week minimum. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
- New York Times Columnists vs. the Haters<\/a> via Slate. I don’t know whether to laugh or cry at this but the author chronicles all the recent New York Times opinion columns that are basically a response to someone being mean to the author on twitter, which … seems deeply unnecessary but that’s 2019 for you.<\/li>
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